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We hope that what you find here will bring you closer to finding Health, Hope, and Happiness.

February 28, 2015 | by 2xsurvivor
Tiffany was diagnosed with cancer shortly after giving birth to her first child and then re-diagnosed shortly after entering remission. Read more to find out how she coped during this difficult time.

Six weeks after giving birth to my first child, I was diagnosed with Hodgkin's lymphoma. My world and my family’s was stunned and shaken. I felt numb. Then, reality set in and I became scared. Not only did I have the worries of being a first time momma but now I had to add the worries of being a cancer patient as well.

I remember the night before my first treatment, rocking my precious brand new baby girl, just gazing and being mesmerized with her. I prayed countless times that she would never see me sick, never see me bald or never see the fear of this awful disease within me. I knew she was only weeks old, and...
February 19, 2015 | by cfrish1
Anyone who has been affected by cancer understands just how much of a rollercoaster it can be.Read more to find out how Caryn was able to conquer her emotions and find peace.

We all react differently to hearing the words "you have cancer", but for most of us, it's a crazy mix of emotions: shock, fear, anger, sadness, confusion, worry, hopelessness and panic.

These emotions all seem to happen all at once, and then in waves. Up and down, up and down. "Am I going to die?" came rushing to the fore-front of my brain in an absolute instant. I was overwhelmed with fear and loneliness. I was scared for myself and for my family – none of us knowing what to expect. I was wondering what my life was going to be like. What's next? The unknown terrified me. The tears seemed endless. I felt like I was in a dark, grey fog. I...
February 6, 2015 | by IsabelODonovan
Even though Isabel was skeptical when her doctor told her the lump she found was nothing to worry about, she believed him. Until a friend pushed her to get a second opinion...

I found a lump in my right breast on the night of June 15th, 2011. My breasts are relatively small and as I lay there alone, lying on my back, I felt a tiny lump on the bottom left side of my breast. It was so small that when I stood up, I could not feel it. I wondered if it was my imagination, but as I lay back down and felt again, it was definitely there. And I started to panic. Could it possibly be breast cancer? Surely not. It was such a tiny lump. I had no other symptoms, in fact I felt great. I was 34 years old, fit, strong, healthy and most definitely not sick. There was no history of it in the family and realistically, was I not too young to...
January 23, 2015 | by imdeemac
If you or a loved one has been recently diagnosed with cancer, share this letter with them - written by a survivor who was given only a few months to live eighteen years ago. Read more.

I know you may be feeling sad. Mad. Numb. Ugly. Scared. Vulnerable. The list goes on. I know that you're thinking that this isn't fair. It isn't. I know that you haven't even really thought about yourself because you are so focused on those around you who need you to be alive and healthy. Your children. Your parents. Your significant other. Your best friend.

I can't sit here and try and make you feel different about any of this, but I can let you know that you're not alone. One of the biggest things that you will need to do right now, at the very start of your journey, is to make up your mind to really give this all you've got. Do...
January 17, 2015 | by PamSudlow
CorrectChemo is a test that reveals which chemo will kill the cancer cells of an individual patient. It allows patients to take control of their treatment plan. Read more.

Many survivors talk in terms of being initially overwhelmed at their diagnosis – mine was more like a tsunami of fear and doubt. How can I handle stage 4 colon cancer that's metastasized to my lungs and liver...and everything else going on in my life? I needed answers quickly.

Through The National Exchange Club organization (I am a past President and the first woman in 93 years), I learned about a test that I could take before I settled on a cancer treatment plan.

"Test?" I thought. What test? I never knew that this was an option – that there was actually a test that would help determine what chemo would work on an individual's specific...
January 15, 2015 | by sedonawoman
Cancer is difficult. It is not shameful to admit that you don't have the means, energy or time to accomplish whatever it is that you wish to do when dealing with cancer. You can't do it alone, so why not ask for help?

I was raised to be strong, independent and resourceful. I was of the mindset to do things by myself and for myself and not have to depend on others. But then cancer happened. Right away, I was presented with an immediate situation whereby I quickly realized that some outside assistance would be of great benefit for my state of well-being.

I learned firsthand that if I was willing to seek assistance, I was being incredibly brave. I was willing to admit to myself "in the moment of truth" that I couldn't do it all alone. I acknowledged my own needs upfront. I placed myself at the top of my "to-do" list and allowed...
January 7, 2015 | by CancerDoula
Being diagnosed with cancer does not mean you have to "pause" your life. See how one cancer survivor did not let cancer stop him from living.

A day after I got out of a four-day hospitalization, during which I received daily intravenous chemotherapy, there was a wedding for friends of the family. To my delight I felt well and I decided to attend the wedding with my parents. Having only recently ended chemo, I was still feeling the effects of the drugs. When the music started, my father asked me if I wanted to dance, I thought about it for a second and told him: "yes, but if I fall, help me get up". Luckily I didn't fall, and was able to enjoy a great wedding with friends and family.

As cancer patients, we go through certain experiences that the people around us (doctors/ nurses/ caregivers) perceive as difficult,...
January 5, 2015 | by TeamIHadCancer
It has recently come to our attention that a few members of our site have been victim to an upsetting and shocking act of online identity fraud, also known as "cat fishing".

An individual by the name of Jamilla Bigby, assumed to be suffering from Munchausen Syndrome, created two fictional accounts on various online sites, including IHadCancer.com: Emily Wilson (SeeGirlLive) and an account under her real name, Jamilla Bigby, (JMills).

Both SeeGirlLive and JMills actively updated their journals on IHadCancer, recounting their experiences of what it is like to deal with cancer as a twenty-something. We, like many of you, followed their stories closely and never thought for a second that these emotional testimonies could be works of fiction. We are grateful to the individuals at the Warrior Eli Hoax organization who...
December 23, 2014 | by TeamIHadCancer
This holiday season, the IHadCancer.com team wanted to take the time to highlight the people who have come face-to-face with the monster known as cancer but have still found a way to smile and keep hope alive.

If you take the time to read through the lessons that these cancer survivors, fighters and caregivers have learned, you will realize that you are capable of overcoming any obstacle that you may be faced with, and most importantly, that you are not alone.



1. Life Is Short. Time Is Fast. There's No Replay and No Rewind, so Enjoy Every Moment As It Comes.



"I have often said throughout this journey that I haven't had any bad...
December 18, 2014 | by Mama_Emma
Yes, I said a "family with Cancer", because when one member has Cancer, it affects the family unit as a whole. When one member suffers, all the members suffer. We work as a group, as a team, with one goal: TO KICK CANCER'S BUTT!

The DO's and DON'Ts

1. DO reach out, by phone, text, email, snail mail, anything. Please do not be afraid to contact the family. Yes, they are busy but if they want too, they will pick up the phone, if they can't, they won't. (But don't expect a timely reply. You lose track of time in the hospital, days can turn into weeks. They will call you back when they are able to.)

2. DO leave an open ended...