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Survivor: Brain Tumor

Topic: Emotional Support

I am diagnosed with seizures now and I have breakdowns that end up like seizures. Sorry I haven't been on for a while and then really busy lately. I never said this on here. They don't think they'll never stop. I'm going to make this long story short. I've been in the hospital in for 5 weeks straight and also last month. The last time I was in the hospital was because of a seizure and also I lost control of my left leg and left side. While I was there I had to be transferred to downtown Hospital because the doctor wanted to see me and he couldn't get to the hospital because of the frozen ice. He came into the room and said I have to show you something and I said okay what do you have to show me. It was my MRI from last time. It didn't show on the MRI from the beginning or the last one in October last year or December.

There is a something in my brain and they can't give me 100% is not cancer it could be damaged when I fell from seizures or blood damage I don't know they're going to wait a month for another MRI to see what it is. Please pray cuz I'm scared thank you