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I Had Cancer Guidelines

We're all here for similar reasons - we've been touched by cancer in some way. It’s up to all of us to show each other that no one is alone. Your IHadCancer profile is your own place to call home during this crazy thing called cancer, we just ask that you keep these simple guidelines in mind when participating.

1. Always Be Nice. This is a place for connections and conversations – we encourage you all to talk openly but please remain considerate in all of your engagement. Don’t post obscene, hateful or objectionable content. Abuse and disrespect will not be tolerated in the IHC community and is subject to deletion and user removal at our discretion.

2. Be a Good Friend. The IHC community is a family. Please remember to be a good friend to the connections you make on IHC. Ask questions that you wish someone would ask you; if you can’t find the right words to say, send a hug, it can speak louder than words. A simple gesture goes a long way.

3. Don't Spam. This includes sending unsolicited messages of any nature, posting links to unrelated content, promoting a survey, fundraiser or product where it shouldn’t be promoted. If you aren’t sure if something is appropriate to post, e-mail us and we’ll let you know.

4. Think Before You Post. Everything you post on IHadCancer is secure, but it is up to you to monitor how much or how little information you are sharing about yourself and your experience. Please don’t share personal or identifiable information like your mailing address or your full name and don’t share other member’s information.

5. If You See Something, Say Something. We work hard to make sure these guidelines are followed closely but if you see something that doesn’t’ feel right to you, please let us know. We review every report we receive and will take anything you say to heart. We promise.

6. Be Open. Welcome newcomers and help guide them through this journey based on your own experience. Whether you are a survivor, fighter, caregiver or supporter, you have valuable information that can very well help someone else who is just beginning the cancer journey. Be open to sharing experiences and give someone else the gift of your time.

Thanks for being a part of our community. It’s up to all of us to ensure that IHadCancer remains a place for us all to call home when dealing with the ups and downs of a cancer diagnosis.

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Fighter: Colon and Rectal Cancer

Dear Cancer, I’ve never asked why me but why not me. I will continue to ask the same question. It could happen to anyone at any time in their life. I’m still me God loving and fearing, treat all equally, unconditionally loving, strong, resilient, respectful, caring, empathetic and supportive. Importantly me sassy, easy going, love exercising, and stop moving around me. The truth is I love me because I have fought to become her. Cancer I will not let you steal my joy or my essence! Yes, you came in unexpectedly but I accepted you with grace because who I believe in My Savior Jesus Christ. You cannot and will not steal my foundation that anchors me every day. I will never be bitter or negative because that’s not who I am. I’m the person that gives with my whole heart no matter what is going on in my life. I will always remember what I told one of my best friends when she asked did you ask why me and simply stated why not me. I have a platform to be silent has never been my style so let’s see how many souls can be saved and people we can get to know their family history and their health status. See cancer tried to take my love of helping others by taking my career as a PE and Heather teacher/coach/driving instructor but it only fueled it more. Yes I had to retire because trying to keep up with teenagers and chemo every two weeks is not a party . The faculty and students have been nothing but supportive even the graduates of past years. Cancer the truth is you suck!!! I don’t understand why their are so many who have you but we are going to thrive, live, and enjoy our time living. Never put off all you can do today because we just have a tick to our clock that’s louder the the others but no one knows when their last breath will be so spread your wings like butterflies sprinkling light and joy in this darkened world. I pray you see God’s light and love shining through !!

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