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Survivor: Breast Cancer

Topic: Breast Cancer

3 1/2 years ago I finished my dose dense chemo and radiation for ER/PR+ stage 3 breast cancer. The past 9 months I feel my health is deteriorating----I am in pain all the time, (joint and back, muscle pain and and and....) and I am just so damn TIRED all the time....I feel like the more active I am (especially at work where I unload semi's and lift up to 15,000 lbs a day....) the more it takes out of me. I am so exhausted all the time. It's frustrating as a 39 year old with 3 kids and I can't keep up. When I brought this up to my onco doc, he verbally expressed that maybe I had sleep apnea. (He hasn't done a scan in years, or a blood test in 1.5 years :( I went for the sleep apnea test-yes, I had sleep apnea, and I know wear a CPAP at night. I've been wearing it for 4 weeks now and am just as dragged down and beat as ever. My mind just keeps whirling around....is the cancer back? Is my heart damaged from the chemo, and not pumping the o2 I need? Am I just falling apart?!?!?!?!? ANy other like experiences to share? Advice?

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