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Supporter: Skin Cancer (non-Melanoma)

Topic: Surveys & Outreach Requests

I have a very dear friend trying to spread some joy. I am asking for any that feels inspired or wishes to spread a little happiness and joy please help? You're small contribution would make such a difference for my friend, her grandmother and familyI thank all off you who contributed since I last posted this. I believe last count was 29 of the goal 79 cards. Still any additional help to spread just a little joy would be greatly appreciated. I'm sharing this because it brings me joy to know how much this will bring joy to Rebecca and her family. Please a picture/card from the kids. A little Easter/birthday surprise. All would help! Come on Facebook let's do this! *Cards for Grandma Marolyn Update* (Address at the bottom) Hi again! So, we got another card in the mail today. That makes the total of what we have thus far, 14 out of our goal of 79. Slowly moving up! Thank you SO much to those that have sent cards and love! We appreciate it!! I know there's people that I'll be meeting up with soon, but we would really appreciate any shares or help that you could give! We're not looking for donations or anything for her, but we just want to make her birthday extra special since chemo has been taking a toll on her. Some of you have asked if it would be okay to make her something, and she would absolutely love that I'm sure. We want to have everything by the 19th, so that way we can take everything to her the week of April 20th. It doesn't matter if you know her, know us, are besties with our family... whatever! We just want to brighten her day and our goal is 79 cards for her 79th birthday! She has Stage 3 Breast Cancer and this is her second time with the disease. She's a really awesome lady and we really want to cheer her up, because she totally deserves it! I'll make any other cards that we need, to get to the 79. But we would love YOUR help. Even if you make a card and can't or don't want to send it, I'll gladly meet with you to pick it up if it's troublesome. We don't want people to epically go out of their way or anything, but would appreciate the help. Feel free to share the status with your friends to invite them to send cards!!! Please Send Cards To: Marolyn Madden C/O Rebecca Russell or Phyllis Gallegos 500 N Bebe Wichita KS 67212