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Survivor: Ewing's Family of Tumors

Topic: Survivorship

Hi all, I was diagnosed with Ewings Sarcoma in Jan 2010 after many months of misdiagnosis by numerous doctors. Luckily I found an amazing sarcoma team with the experience and empathy to deal with my illness. After 7 rounds of chemo and limb-sparing surgery (my right femur was removed and replaced with a titanium rod), my treatment ended. Last year I celebrated one year in remission and continue to go through regular tests. My issue is that while I am grateful to have overcome this illness, I am having a very difficult time putting my life back together. Due to my illness, I was unable to work for a long time. I had a great job before my diagnosis but cant return to that line of work anymore. Even now its difficult as my metal rod makes it difficult for me to walk or stand for long periods of time. So my work prospects are very limited even though I have a good education (a masters degree). I feel so broken like humpty dumpty. How do I put my life back together? Before I was sick I was successful in my career and had healthy confidence but lately I have been feeling so insecure about my ability to return to work. Has anyone else had a similar experience, i.e. difficulty returning to "normal" life?

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