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I Had Cancer Guidelines

We're all here for similar reasons - we've been touched by cancer in some way. It’s up to all of us to show each other that no one is alone. Your IHadCancer profile is your own place to call home during this crazy thing called cancer, we just ask that you keep these simple guidelines in mind when participating.

1. Always Be Nice. This is a place for connections and conversations – we encourage you all to talk openly but please remain considerate in all of your engagement. Don’t post obscene, hateful or objectionable content. Abuse and disrespect will not be tolerated in the IHC community and is subject to deletion and user removal at our discretion.

2. Be a Good Friend. The IHC community is a family. Please remember to be a good friend to the connections you make on IHC. Ask questions that you wish someone would ask you; if you can’t find the right words to say, send a hug, it can speak louder than words. A simple gesture goes a long way.

3. Don't Spam. This includes sending unsolicited messages of any nature, posting links to unrelated content, promoting a survey, fundraiser or product where it shouldn’t be promoted. If you aren’t sure if something is appropriate to post, e-mail us and we’ll let you know.

4. Think Before You Post. Everything you post on IHadCancer is secure, but it is up to you to monitor how much or how little information you are sharing about yourself and your experience. Please don’t share personal or identifiable information like your mailing address or your full name and don’t share other member’s information.

5. If You See Something, Say Something. We work hard to make sure these guidelines are followed closely but if you see something that doesn’t’ feel right to you, please let us know. We review every report we receive and will take anything you say to heart. We promise.

6. Be Open. Welcome newcomers and help guide them through this journey based on your own experience. Whether you are a survivor, fighter, caregiver or supporter, you have valuable information that can very well help someone else who is just beginning the cancer journey. Be open to sharing experiences and give someone else the gift of your time.

Thanks for being a part of our community. It’s up to all of us to ensure that IHadCancer remains a place for us all to call home when dealing with the ups and downs of a cancer diagnosis.

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Survivor: Breast Cancer

Because of you, I started a movement and business healincomfor.com to help women heal in comfort and dignity. Because of you, I am a guest speaker to encourage others that early detection saves lives! So just get checked out! Because of you I post constantly on fb new findings and information to keep others informed. Because of you I work 17 hours a day building a business to change policy. Because of you I still don't look very long in the mirror when I am getting dressed in the morning. Because of you my story has been on TV five times which I guess is a good thing if it helps others take action. Because of you I am in Mary Ann Halpin's Fearless Women "Visions of a New World The Book, 2012" which is a huge honor. Because of you I have helped almost 500 other mastectomy patients all over the USA. Because of you one of my purposes on this earth became crystal clear. Because of you I worry when I wear a bathing suit because I can't feel if my top has moved around exposing my scars. Because of you I am writing all this down in "I HAD CANCER" I guess truly it all depends on what you do with your life after an attack, rebuild become stronger, become an activist, a spokes person, create a business to help others, or dwell on it reliving everything giving the negative new life. I choose to Be Brave and Fight Like a Girl and make a difference for others. EARLY DETECTION WILL SAVE YOUR LIFE pass it on please thank you, Cherie B. Mathews Austin, Texas healincomfort.com

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