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I Had Cancer Guidelines

We're all here for similar reasons - we've been touched by cancer in some way. It’s up to all of us to show each other that no one is alone. Your IHadCancer profile is your own place to call home during this crazy thing called cancer, we just ask that you keep these simple guidelines in mind when participating.

1. Always Be Nice. This is a place for connections and conversations – we encourage you all to talk openly but please remain considerate in all of your engagement. Don’t post obscene, hateful or objectionable content. Abuse and disrespect will not be tolerated in the IHC community and is subject to deletion and user removal at our discretion.

2. Be a Good Friend. The IHC community is a family. Please remember to be a good friend to the connections you make on IHC. Ask questions that you wish someone would ask you; if you can’t find the right words to say, send a hug, it can speak louder than words. A simple gesture goes a long way.

3. Don't Spam. This includes sending unsolicited messages of any nature, posting links to unrelated content, promoting a survey, fundraiser or product where it shouldn’t be promoted. If you aren’t sure if something is appropriate to post, e-mail us and we’ll let you know.

4. Think Before You Post. Everything you post on IHadCancer is secure, but it is up to you to monitor how much or how little information you are sharing about yourself and your experience. Please don’t share personal or identifiable information like your mailing address or your full name and don’t share other member’s information.

5. If You See Something, Say Something. We work hard to make sure these guidelines are followed closely but if you see something that doesn’t’ feel right to you, please let us know. We review every report we receive and will take anything you say to heart. We promise.

6. Be Open. Welcome newcomers and help guide them through this journey based on your own experience. Whether you are a survivor, fighter, caregiver or supporter, you have valuable information that can very well help someone else who is just beginning the cancer journey. Be open to sharing experiences and give someone else the gift of your time.

Thanks for being a part of our community. It’s up to all of us to ensure that IHadCancer remains a place for us all to call home when dealing with the ups and downs of a cancer diagnosis.

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Fighter: Breast Cancer

Dear Cancer, You are sneaky and evil. You and I will NEVER be friends... You packed your bags and moved into my life without my permission. You have not paid your dues and I want you gone for good!!! How dare you sneak up on me like that?!?!??! Who do you think you are?!?!? I HAD a life!!!! Maybe it wasn't the best or the most ideal, but it was my LIFE... I hate you for taking away my ability to do all the things I used to do like lifting something that weighs more than 5lbs, dancing, being able to drive, being able to cook my own meals... All I can say is Thank God I had hurt my back at work that day or I might have kept going on with my life and died at your gruesome hands never having been the wiser... I found you and now that I know you are here, I will be keeping a close eye on you cause you will NOT sneak up on my daughter or son the way you did me!!! I will NOT let you ruin their livelihood the way you did mine!!! They will live full lives and NEVER have to know first hand all the scary things I've physically gone through this last year... Next month it will have been a full year since I found out you were even here... You will leave my body and NEVER return!!!! The things you put me and my family through emotionally... You made my poor granny cry and she has been so worried about me when it's me who should be worrying about HER since she is 81yrs old... I HATE YOU for ALL the THINGS I can no longer do!!! My son and I loved to play disc golf and we loved to go swimming... Thanks to you we can no longer do that... My daughter used to love it when I picked her up and took her and her friends out to eat and to go shopping, and thanks to you and your sick evilness I can no longer do those things with her!!! And together we all 3 loved to load up the Jeep with blankets and pillows and go to a drive in movie theater... Since I can't drive my Jeep anymore, we can no longer do that either... some of the best times we had was watching those double features under the stars with fireflies in the fields nearby.... shame on you for taking that away from us!!! Shame on you for taking away everyone else's happiness.... You are pure evil!!!

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