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I Had Cancer Guidelines

We're all here for similar reasons - we've been touched by cancer in some way. It’s up to all of us to show each other that no one is alone. Your IHadCancer profile is your own place to call home during this crazy thing called cancer, we just ask that you keep these simple guidelines in mind when participating.

1. Always Be Nice. This is a place for connections and conversations – we encourage you all to talk openly but please remain considerate in all of your engagement. Don’t post obscene, hateful or objectionable content. Abuse and disrespect will not be tolerated in the IHC community and is subject to deletion and user removal at our discretion.

2. Be a Good Friend. The IHC community is a family. Please remember to be a good friend to the connections you make on IHC. Ask questions that you wish someone would ask you; if you can’t find the right words to say, send a hug, it can speak louder than words. A simple gesture goes a long way.

3. Don't Spam. This includes sending unsolicited messages of any nature, posting links to unrelated content, promoting a survey, fundraiser or product where it shouldn’t be promoted. If you aren’t sure if something is appropriate to post, e-mail us and we’ll let you know.

4. Think Before You Post. Everything you post on IHadCancer is secure, but it is up to you to monitor how much or how little information you are sharing about yourself and your experience. Please don’t share personal or identifiable information like your mailing address or your full name and don’t share other member’s information.

5. If You See Something, Say Something. We work hard to make sure these guidelines are followed closely but if you see something that doesn’t’ feel right to you, please let us know. We review every report we receive and will take anything you say to heart. We promise.

6. Be Open. Welcome newcomers and help guide them through this journey based on your own experience. Whether you are a survivor, fighter, caregiver or supporter, you have valuable information that can very well help someone else who is just beginning the cancer journey. Be open to sharing experiences and give someone else the gift of your time.

Thanks for being a part of our community. It’s up to all of us to ensure that IHadCancer remains a place for us all to call home when dealing with the ups and downs of a cancer diagnosis.

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Survivor: Chronic Myelogenous Leukemia

Thank you cancer, for all that you have done for me. Thank you for helping me understand love. Thank you for showing me that while I often feel meek, ferocity lives in me. Thank you for testing me and demanding that I pass. Thank you for making me savor every moment, the perfect and the imperfect. Thank you for giving me something to live up to. Thank you for making me let go. Thank you for reminding me why I practice. Thank you for not allowing me to be frivolous. Thank you for allowing me to grow deep roots in my marriage. Thank you for giving me the ability to set goals. Twenty year goals. Thank you for opening my eyes to the goodness that lives in those around me. Thank you for filling my life with those that I am in awe of. They are the greatest blessing. Thank you for requiring honest gratitude, appreciation and thankfulness. Thank you for making me get my priorities in order. Thank you for giving me the humility to say yes. Thank you for giving me the strength to say no. Thank you for opening my eyes to the elegance and beauty of the world around me, and in me. Thank you for forcing me to evaluate how I interact with those most important in my life. Thank you for the opportunity to begin to grow. Thank you, Cancer, for everything. Now kindly fuck off.

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