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I Had Cancer Guidelines

We're all here for similar reasons - we've been touched by cancer in some way. It’s up to all of us to show each other that no one is alone. Your IHadCancer profile is your own place to call home during this crazy thing called cancer, we just ask that you keep these simple guidelines in mind when participating.

1. Always Be Nice. This is a place for connections and conversations – we encourage you all to talk openly but please remain considerate in all of your engagement. Don’t post obscene, hateful or objectionable content. Abuse and disrespect will not be tolerated in the IHC community and is subject to deletion and user removal at our discretion.

2. Be a Good Friend. The IHC community is a family. Please remember to be a good friend to the connections you make on IHC. Ask questions that you wish someone would ask you; if you can’t find the right words to say, send a hug, it can speak louder than words. A simple gesture goes a long way.

3. Don't Spam. This includes sending unsolicited messages of any nature, posting links to unrelated content, promoting a survey, fundraiser or product where it shouldn’t be promoted. If you aren’t sure if something is appropriate to post, e-mail us and we’ll let you know.

4. Think Before You Post. Everything you post on IHadCancer is secure, but it is up to you to monitor how much or how little information you are sharing about yourself and your experience. Please don’t share personal or identifiable information like your mailing address or your full name and don’t share other member’s information.

5. If You See Something, Say Something. We work hard to make sure these guidelines are followed closely but if you see something that doesn’t’ feel right to you, please let us know. We review every report we receive and will take anything you say to heart. We promise.

6. Be Open. Welcome newcomers and help guide them through this journey based on your own experience. Whether you are a survivor, fighter, caregiver or supporter, you have valuable information that can very well help someone else who is just beginning the cancer journey. Be open to sharing experiences and give someone else the gift of your time.

Thanks for being a part of our community. It’s up to all of us to ensure that IHadCancer remains a place for us all to call home when dealing with the ups and downs of a cancer diagnosis.

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Fighter: Hodgkin's Lymphoma

You have taught me many things. You have shown me how fragile and precious life is..and how easily it can be taken for granted. You have taught me that when I think I can't...I can. You have shown me that there are still good, loving people in this world. My walk with God has been strengthened because there are times when only He holds me up. You took my baby cousin with leukemia...she would be in her 30s today. But you won't take me. I carry on my shoulders her, a friend who finally lost her fight this winter...and another friend who has been told that she is terminal and may see Christmas. Their lives are not in vain. I cannot say that I hate you...because you have taught me so many things. Although my inner fear is the fact that you will come back...I refuse to live in fear. I am going to beat you...and by beating you will give hope to others who will be going through this same thing I am going through now. You may take some of us..but you will not take all of us. And those of us who survive will always remember those who have lost their lives. And one day, you will be a distant memory.

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