January 16th, 2016
| Survivor: Uterine or Endometrial Cancer
Before cancer, I was engaged to be married and living a happy, healthy life. Then everything changed in April 2014, when I was diagnosed with stage 4 uterine cancer. After a few weeks of frantic appointments, I had a full hysterectomy and several lymph nodes in my groin removed. After my surgery I was "couch ridden" for about four weeks. I was in a lot of pain. I couldn't do anything for myself. I was so miserable.
Months of chemo, several scans, blood work, a colonoscopy, and mammogram later...I finally entered remission. When this happened I thought, "Great! That part of my life is behind me. I do not have to see my oncologist for few months." I expected to feel overjoyed.
But unfortunately, that wasn't the case. I didn't know it was possible to feel frustrated, angry, annoyed and abused by my cancer while also feeling happy, overjoyed, confident and excited. I was not prepared for my emotions to be so unpredictable. All these emotions were capable of appearing within one day -- or even one hour.
My typical day often looked a bit like this:
Fortunately, I have figured out out a way to manage all of this and have compiled a few tips for those who may be in my shoes now.
1. Find Your Support Network
It's important to have family or friends to talk to at any time of the day or night. Find a cancer support group in your area. I am a member of the WellSpring Centre (there are free classes for yoga, nutrition, meditation, the Healing Journey, Fear of Recurrence.)
Go for a walk every day if you can. Go to the gym, do yoga, or meditate.
3. Eat A Balanced Diet
But remember that it is OK to have a treat once in a while.
4. Rest As Needed
I learned to listen to my body. When I have having an unpredictable emotion, I lay down.
5. Ask Your Oncologist About Support After Treatment
I asked for a referral to a social worker and psycho-social oncologist. My social worker called me every two to three months to check up on me I see her every few months and I talk and she listens. I would highly recommend this to anyone.
6. Help Someone Every Day
If you have the strength and energy, it may make you forget about your cancer...even just for a little while.
Yes, it is a constant battle with managing levels of my emotions after cancer, but through time and support groups I have learned that it is ok to feel these things.
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