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I Had Cancer Guidelines

We're all here for similar reasons - we've been touched by cancer in some way. It’s up to all of us to show each other that no one is alone. Your IHadCancer profile is your own place to call home during this crazy thing called cancer, we just ask that you keep these simple guidelines in mind when participating.

1. Always Be Nice. This is a place for connections and conversations – we encourage you all to talk openly but please remain considerate in all of your engagement. Don’t post obscene, hateful or objectionable content. Abuse and disrespect will not be tolerated in the IHC community and is subject to deletion and user removal at our discretion.

2. Be a Good Friend. The IHC community is a family. Please remember to be a good friend to the connections you make on IHC. Ask questions that you wish someone would ask you; if you can’t find the right words to say, send a hug, it can speak louder than words. A simple gesture goes a long way.

3. Don't Spam. This includes sending unsolicited messages of any nature, posting links to unrelated content, promoting a survey, fundraiser or product where it shouldn’t be promoted. If you aren’t sure if something is appropriate to post, e-mail us and we’ll let you know.

4. Think Before You Post. Everything you post on IHadCancer is secure, but it is up to you to monitor how much or how little information you are sharing about yourself and your experience. Please don’t share personal or identifiable information like your mailing address or your full name and don’t share other member’s information.

5. If You See Something, Say Something. We work hard to make sure these guidelines are followed closely but if you see something that doesn’t’ feel right to you, please let us know. We review every report we receive and will take anything you say to heart. We promise.

6. Be Open. Welcome newcomers and help guide them through this journey based on your own experience. Whether you are a survivor, fighter, caregiver or supporter, you have valuable information that can very well help someone else who is just beginning the cancer journey. Be open to sharing experiences and give someone else the gift of your time.

Thanks for being a part of our community. It’s up to all of us to ensure that IHadCancer remains a place for us all to call home when dealing with the ups and downs of a cancer diagnosis.

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Fighter: Thyroid Cancer

Dear cancer, My life used to be perfect before I met you. I realized I didn't appreciate my life as I should have to, but I was aware that hard work was helping me to accomplish my goals. You came into my life last year, and it took 10 seconds talk to my doctor to see my dreams vanishing from my hands. I was diagnosed with "the good cancer", but truth is I don't know what's good about having a 5h surgery and being opened from earlobe to 2cm at the right of the center of my neck. They said treatment was a piece of cake, like drinking water... Well, since I drank that radioactive "water" I'm nauseated all the time. They said it was the good cancer and after surgery And treatment I could go back to my life... But I don't know what's the good thing about living with no thyroid and being hormone manipulated all the time... Life is not the same, a pill will never replace my thyroid... I feel tired most of the time, I feel like everything I do is a fight against my body that has too little energy to make it through the day. I'm just 28, I used to be super active, I used to feel I could conquer the world and I was conquering my dreams. I don't know dear cancer what you did to me, but all this fight has let me with many insecurities, with so many doubts, with so many fears... I don't understand why you had to come into my life so uninvited... It feels like you have taken my life from me, and I just don't know how to get it back. Everybody talks about how hard is the fight, but truth is life after you is as hard as the fight.

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