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I Had Cancer Guidelines

We're all here for similar reasons - we've been touched by cancer in some way. It’s up to all of us to show each other that no one is alone. Your IHadCancer profile is your own place to call home during this crazy thing called cancer, we just ask that you keep these simple guidelines in mind when participating.

1. Always Be Nice. This is a place for connections and conversations – we encourage you all to talk openly but please remain considerate in all of your engagement. Don’t post obscene, hateful or objectionable content. Abuse and disrespect will not be tolerated in the IHC community and is subject to deletion and user removal at our discretion.

2. Be a Good Friend. The IHC community is a family. Please remember to be a good friend to the connections you make on IHC. Ask questions that you wish someone would ask you; if you can’t find the right words to say, send a hug, it can speak louder than words. A simple gesture goes a long way.

3. Don't Spam. This includes sending unsolicited messages of any nature, posting links to unrelated content, promoting a survey, fundraiser or product where it shouldn’t be promoted. If you aren’t sure if something is appropriate to post, e-mail us and we’ll let you know.

4. Think Before You Post. Everything you post on IHadCancer is secure, but it is up to you to monitor how much or how little information you are sharing about yourself and your experience. Please don’t share personal or identifiable information like your mailing address or your full name and don’t share other member’s information.

5. If You See Something, Say Something. We work hard to make sure these guidelines are followed closely but if you see something that doesn’t’ feel right to you, please let us know. We review every report we receive and will take anything you say to heart. We promise.

6. Be Open. Welcome newcomers and help guide them through this journey based on your own experience. Whether you are a survivor, fighter, caregiver or supporter, you have valuable information that can very well help someone else who is just beginning the cancer journey. Be open to sharing experiences and give someone else the gift of your time.

Thanks for being a part of our community. It’s up to all of us to ensure that IHadCancer remains a place for us all to call home when dealing with the ups and downs of a cancer diagnosis.

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Supporter: Pancreatic Cancer

I have a sister who is 53 and has pancrea's cancer. It has now traveled to her liver,lungs and aorata it was fast growing .She was told that jan 21. She has had her first chemo the 31 of jan, will have her second one feb 14 and the third one feb 28 then they are going to see if tumors are shrinking. I read about other people who are dealing with cancer and what i have found out the same feelings i am having are the same as yours. We live for the day and hope for tommorrow. God Bless all of you who are going through this ,it does take alot of courage and strenght. I am not saying i know how you feel just that my prayers are with you. My little sister i feel so lost. I try not to think of it because it makes me cry just live for today and see what tommorow will bring. I am going to take care of my sister when she goes through her 3rd chemo. I want to be there for her and help out as much as i can, i just dont know anything about chemo, but im sure i will learn.Take care

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