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I Had Cancer Guidelines

We're all here for similar reasons - we've been touched by cancer in some way. It’s up to all of us to show each other that no one is alone. Your IHadCancer profile is your own place to call home during this crazy thing called cancer, we just ask that you keep these simple guidelines in mind when participating.

1. Always Be Nice. This is a place for connections and conversations – we encourage you all to talk openly but please remain considerate in all of your engagement. Don’t post obscene, hateful or objectionable content. Abuse and disrespect will not be tolerated in the IHC community and is subject to deletion and user removal at our discretion.

2. Be a Good Friend. The IHC community is a family. Please remember to be a good friend to the connections you make on IHC. Ask questions that you wish someone would ask you; if you can’t find the right words to say, send a hug, it can speak louder than words. A simple gesture goes a long way.

3. Don't Spam. This includes sending unsolicited messages of any nature, posting links to unrelated content, promoting a survey, fundraiser or product where it shouldn’t be promoted. If you aren’t sure if something is appropriate to post, e-mail us and we’ll let you know.

4. Think Before You Post. Everything you post on IHadCancer is secure, but it is up to you to monitor how much or how little information you are sharing about yourself and your experience. Please don’t share personal or identifiable information like your mailing address or your full name and don’t share other member’s information.

5. If You See Something, Say Something. We work hard to make sure these guidelines are followed closely but if you see something that doesn’t’ feel right to you, please let us know. We review every report we receive and will take anything you say to heart. We promise.

6. Be Open. Welcome newcomers and help guide them through this journey based on your own experience. Whether you are a survivor, fighter, caregiver or supporter, you have valuable information that can very well help someone else who is just beginning the cancer journey. Be open to sharing experiences and give someone else the gift of your time.

Thanks for being a part of our community. It’s up to all of us to ensure that IHadCancer remains a place for us all to call home when dealing with the ups and downs of a cancer diagnosis.

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SunmerHeath Connect

Fighter: Ocular Melanoma

Dear cancer, You were not wanted in my life. Actually, you are not wanted anywhere. Nobody likes you, you do nothing but hurt people in every way possible, whether it be emotionally, physically, socially and last but not least mentally. It's only been 2 months since you arrived in my life and I want nothing more to beat you. I am 19 and in college I should only worrying about my school work and boys not what my next CT scan will show and reading up on chemo& other treatments. You have taken my grandfather's and other precious angels but I promise your not taking this one. You have taken enough from life, I have lost friend's, confidence, cried myself to sleep, gone through pain and depression focus, gained anxiety issues and mainly lost my happiness just because you are here! And now that you are I want nothing more than to beat you. You may tamper with my body but you will take nothing else. If anything your going to make me a better person, I have become an inspiration to many. I have realized and made life long friends and have found my purpose on this earth. So when you spread and think you are winning. You are WRONG because I am already here waiting, ready to fight my next battle. You will never be ahead of me, I will not shed another tear over you and finally you will never beat me. WE WILL find a cure and WE WILL WIN!

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