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I Had Cancer Guidelines

We're all here for similar reasons - we've been touched by cancer in some way. It’s up to all of us to show each other that no one is alone. Your IHadCancer profile is your own place to call home during this crazy thing called cancer, we just ask that you keep these simple guidelines in mind when participating.

1. Always Be Nice. This is a place for connections and conversations – we encourage you all to talk openly but please remain considerate in all of your engagement. Don’t post obscene, hateful or objectionable content. Abuse and disrespect will not be tolerated in the IHC community and is subject to deletion and user removal at our discretion.

2. Be a Good Friend. The IHC community is a family. Please remember to be a good friend to the connections you make on IHC. Ask questions that you wish someone would ask you; if you can’t find the right words to say, send a hug, it can speak louder than words. A simple gesture goes a long way.

3. Don't Spam. This includes sending unsolicited messages of any nature, posting links to unrelated content, promoting a survey, fundraiser or product where it shouldn’t be promoted. If you aren’t sure if something is appropriate to post, e-mail us and we’ll let you know.

4. Think Before You Post. Everything you post on IHadCancer is secure, but it is up to you to monitor how much or how little information you are sharing about yourself and your experience. Please don’t share personal or identifiable information like your mailing address or your full name and don’t share other member’s information.

5. If You See Something, Say Something. We work hard to make sure these guidelines are followed closely but if you see something that doesn’t’ feel right to you, please let us know. We review every report we receive and will take anything you say to heart. We promise.

6. Be Open. Welcome newcomers and help guide them through this journey based on your own experience. Whether you are a survivor, fighter, caregiver or supporter, you have valuable information that can very well help someone else who is just beginning the cancer journey. Be open to sharing experiences and give someone else the gift of your time.

Thanks for being a part of our community. It’s up to all of us to ensure that IHadCancer remains a place for us all to call home when dealing with the ups and downs of a cancer diagnosis.

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Fighter: Ovarian Cancer

FUCK YOU. In the past decade, you managed to turn me from a healthy, athletic, active young woman into a frail, emotionally and physically ravaged mess. I swear most of the time that the only reason I've beaten you thus far and continue fighting with every fibre of my being is because I hate you THAT MUCH. But you already knew that...after all, before you decided to take a direct shot at me, I fought your stupid ass for a living, on behalf of children. I shouldn't be able to name 40 people off by heart who've now been gone now more than twice as long as they were alive, but I can, BECAUSE OF YOU. I can't say it enough...I fucking hate you. And I really didn't think it was possible for me to hate you any more. But you've proven me wrong again. Because now you're fucking with my mother. You took a shot at her once before, but it was weak. I could let that go. But this? This just isn't right. You may have killed innocent children right before my eyes, taken away some of my closest friends, and rendered me sterile, chronically ill, and highly unlikely to see my 50th birthday, but y'know what...back off my mother, and get the fuck away from me (after all, you've left plenty of friends behind to take me out without your help) and we'll call it a truce.

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