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I Had Cancer Guidelines

We're all here for similar reasons - we've been touched by cancer in some way. It’s up to all of us to show each other that no one is alone. Your IHadCancer profile is your own place to call home during this crazy thing called cancer, we just ask that you keep these simple guidelines in mind when participating.

1. Always Be Nice. This is a place for connections and conversations – we encourage you all to talk openly but please remain considerate in all of your engagement. Don’t post obscene, hateful or objectionable content. Abuse and disrespect will not be tolerated in the IHC community and is subject to deletion and user removal at our discretion.

2. Be a Good Friend. The IHC community is a family. Please remember to be a good friend to the connections you make on IHC. Ask questions that you wish someone would ask you; if you can’t find the right words to say, send a hug, it can speak louder than words. A simple gesture goes a long way.

3. Don't Spam. This includes sending unsolicited messages of any nature, posting links to unrelated content, promoting a survey, fundraiser or product where it shouldn’t be promoted. If you aren’t sure if something is appropriate to post, e-mail us and we’ll let you know.

4. Think Before You Post. Everything you post on IHadCancer is secure, but it is up to you to monitor how much or how little information you are sharing about yourself and your experience. Please don’t share personal or identifiable information like your mailing address or your full name and don’t share other member’s information.

5. If You See Something, Say Something. We work hard to make sure these guidelines are followed closely but if you see something that doesn’t’ feel right to you, please let us know. We review every report we receive and will take anything you say to heart. We promise.

6. Be Open. Welcome newcomers and help guide them through this journey based on your own experience. Whether you are a survivor, fighter, caregiver or supporter, you have valuable information that can very well help someone else who is just beginning the cancer journey. Be open to sharing experiences and give someone else the gift of your time.

Thanks for being a part of our community. It’s up to all of us to ensure that IHadCancer remains a place for us all to call home when dealing with the ups and downs of a cancer diagnosis.

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Survivor: Acute Myeloid Leukemia

Dearest Cancer, you fucking tried. Did you actually think you could best me... twice? As the saying goes; "Not even a donkey hits its head on the same stone twice". Brain cancer? Leukemia? Ye naa, I'm right thanks. Yea I'm a bit scarred (especially physically. I guess two central lines and a ventricular reservoir would do that) but hell, am I a better person for it. You taught me that life is amazing and that's its completely OK 'Just to be a bit silly'. Maybe I owe you a lot more than I let on but at least the good stuff you gave me doesn't have a chance of killing me. It's going to be amazing to think that 20 years down the track that we will have discovered a treatment against you. No chemo (I guess they'll just look back at the barbaric ways we used to fight), just a way to remove you from existence. More importantly, (Not wanting to count my chickens) I'll have the chance to be around to see that...your demise..your inevitable downfall. You see, when you hurt a lot of people, they tend to get a bit mad. And people act strangely when they get mad. It is going to be a privilege to dance on your grave and watch my loved ones live in a world where this is one less thing to be concerned about. So dear cancer... You tried.