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I Had Cancer Guidelines

We're all here for similar reasons - we've been touched by cancer in some way. It’s up to all of us to show each other that no one is alone. Your IHadCancer profile is your own place to call home during this crazy thing called cancer, we just ask that you keep these simple guidelines in mind when participating.

1. Always Be Nice. This is a place for connections and conversations – we encourage you all to talk openly but please remain considerate in all of your engagement. Don’t post obscene, hateful or objectionable content. Abuse and disrespect will not be tolerated in the IHC community and is subject to deletion and user removal at our discretion.

2. Be a Good Friend. The IHC community is a family. Please remember to be a good friend to the connections you make on IHC. Ask questions that you wish someone would ask you; if you can’t find the right words to say, send a hug, it can speak louder than words. A simple gesture goes a long way.

3. Don't Spam. This includes sending unsolicited messages of any nature, posting links to unrelated content, promoting a survey, fundraiser or product where it shouldn’t be promoted. If you aren’t sure if something is appropriate to post, e-mail us and we’ll let you know.

4. Think Before You Post. Everything you post on IHadCancer is secure, but it is up to you to monitor how much or how little information you are sharing about yourself and your experience. Please don’t share personal or identifiable information like your mailing address or your full name and don’t share other member’s information.

5. If You See Something, Say Something. We work hard to make sure these guidelines are followed closely but if you see something that doesn’t’ feel right to you, please let us know. We review every report we receive and will take anything you say to heart. We promise.

6. Be Open. Welcome newcomers and help guide them through this journey based on your own experience. Whether you are a survivor, fighter, caregiver or supporter, you have valuable information that can very well help someone else who is just beginning the cancer journey. Be open to sharing experiences and give someone else the gift of your time.

Thanks for being a part of our community. It’s up to all of us to ensure that IHadCancer remains a place for us all to call home when dealing with the ups and downs of a cancer diagnosis.

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Sarahashleighh Connect

Fighter: Non-Hodgkin's Lymphoma

Dear cancer, you were a surprise, but I have learnt a lot about myself because of you. I can honestly say I like who I am now a lot more than I did before. You’ve sucked all the life out of me and as a 22 year old have rattled my normality. I hate that you’ve made me so weak I can no longer do what I love or even every day activities. I hate that you’ve stripped my aesthetic appearance and made me look so frail and ill. I hate that whatever I do you’re everything I have to think about - side effects, energy, reflux, contraindications, appointments, PICC line caution and care. I hate that you made me, at 22, make life changing decisions in terms of fertility I didn’t think I’d have to think about for 5-10 years. You were an answer I’m happy I have, but a shock and a shake up. Overall I’m glad I have a reason for the constant fatigue and it’s not just because I’m lazy. I can breathe again and my heart rate is no longer 134. But knowing you were 15cm and growing rapidly has shaken my brain forever. I hope when April 2018 comes around I never see you again. Your forced companion, Sarah

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