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I Had Cancer Guidelines

We're all here for similar reasons - we've been touched by cancer in some way. It’s up to all of us to show each other that no one is alone. Your IHadCancer profile is your own place to call home during this crazy thing called cancer, we just ask that you keep these simple guidelines in mind when participating.

1. Always Be Nice. This is a place for connections and conversations – we encourage you all to talk openly but please remain considerate in all of your engagement. Don’t post obscene, hateful or objectionable content. Abuse and disrespect will not be tolerated in the IHC community and is subject to deletion and user removal at our discretion.

2. Be a Good Friend. The IHC community is a family. Please remember to be a good friend to the connections you make on IHC. Ask questions that you wish someone would ask you; if you can’t find the right words to say, send a hug, it can speak louder than words. A simple gesture goes a long way.

3. Don't Spam. This includes sending unsolicited messages of any nature, posting links to unrelated content, promoting a survey, fundraiser or product where it shouldn’t be promoted. If you aren’t sure if something is appropriate to post, e-mail us and we’ll let you know.

4. Think Before You Post. Everything you post on IHadCancer is secure, but it is up to you to monitor how much or how little information you are sharing about yourself and your experience. Please don’t share personal or identifiable information like your mailing address or your full name and don’t share other member’s information.

5. If You See Something, Say Something. We work hard to make sure these guidelines are followed closely but if you see something that doesn’t’ feel right to you, please let us know. We review every report we receive and will take anything you say to heart. We promise.

6. Be Open. Welcome newcomers and help guide them through this journey based on your own experience. Whether you are a survivor, fighter, caregiver or supporter, you have valuable information that can very well help someone else who is just beginning the cancer journey. Be open to sharing experiences and give someone else the gift of your time.

Thanks for being a part of our community. It’s up to all of us to ensure that IHadCancer remains a place for us all to call home when dealing with the ups and downs of a cancer diagnosis.

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Rezil Connect

Survivor: Soft Tissue Sarcoma

Dear cancer you may of changed my life forever but I still smile, I still laugh, I still live. I may limp and get stuck in my bed after I sleep cus of you destroying my nerves. You never destroyed my spirt or strength actually you just made me stronger. When they told me I had you I felt like superwoman. See I had you over ten years before they found you. I went to work everyday I took care of my family etc you caused me a lot of pain and made me crawl sometimes cus I couldn’t walk pale as a ghost weak tired throw up pass out but no one knew what was the cause you was sneaky but you didn’t stop me you made me isolated because when people found out about you they split people I was there for even family members. However that’s fine I’m better off without fake people thanks for exposing them to me. Dear cancer your plan backfired because you was evicted and if you come back I have this really awesome surgeon who will evict you again. So your just wasting your time. Ps your supposed to be my immune system stop trying to run a coup and do your job