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I Had Cancer Guidelines

We're all here for similar reasons - we've been touched by cancer in some way. It’s up to all of us to show each other that no one is alone. Your IHadCancer profile is your own place to call home during this crazy thing called cancer, we just ask that you keep these simple guidelines in mind when participating.

1. Always Be Nice. This is a place for connections and conversations – we encourage you all to talk openly but please remain considerate in all of your engagement. Don’t post obscene, hateful or objectionable content. Abuse and disrespect will not be tolerated in the IHC community and is subject to deletion and user removal at our discretion.

2. Be a Good Friend. The IHC community is a family. Please remember to be a good friend to the connections you make on IHC. Ask questions that you wish someone would ask you; if you can’t find the right words to say, send a hug, it can speak louder than words. A simple gesture goes a long way.

3. Don't Spam. This includes sending unsolicited messages of any nature, posting links to unrelated content, promoting a survey, fundraiser or product where it shouldn’t be promoted. If you aren’t sure if something is appropriate to post, e-mail us and we’ll let you know.

4. Think Before You Post. Everything you post on IHadCancer is secure, but it is up to you to monitor how much or how little information you are sharing about yourself and your experience. Please don’t share personal or identifiable information like your mailing address or your full name and don’t share other member’s information.

5. If You See Something, Say Something. We work hard to make sure these guidelines are followed closely but if you see something that doesn’t’ feel right to you, please let us know. We review every report we receive and will take anything you say to heart. We promise.

6. Be Open. Welcome newcomers and help guide them through this journey based on your own experience. Whether you are a survivor, fighter, caregiver or supporter, you have valuable information that can very well help someone else who is just beginning the cancer journey. Be open to sharing experiences and give someone else the gift of your time.

Thanks for being a part of our community. It’s up to all of us to ensure that IHadCancer remains a place for us all to call home when dealing with the ups and downs of a cancer diagnosis.

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Survivor: Acute Myeloid Leukemia

Dear Cancer, You didn't ruin my life, you made it better. I now know that I can overcome any problem that comes at me. You may have tried to hurt me once but it will NEVER happen again! You have tried to take some of my family and friends and you have succeeded with a few but my family and friends are stronger than you! They know how to defeat you and will continue to do so until you only as bad as a threat as the common cold! Some day you will just be washed away with a pill in the blink of an eye and when that day comes I will laugh HYSTERICALLY! Lets just say when you were the thing that we didn't know had invaded my body you were scary! When the doctor told me you were what you were I was scared at first but when I started taking the juice that you ABSOLUTELY HATE I knew I AM stronger than you! You are no match were no match for me! I did what I had to do to get rid of you! It was pain full, tiring, stressful, and crippling at times but I was determined to beat you into a pulp and get you out of my body! You ARE no match for me! As my cousin said, Leukemia, You messed with the wrong chick! You have seen the beginning of the wrath from this Rath! Beware! If you try anything like that again you will be DESTROYED! And Thats a promise! Your Worst Nightmare, Krysten Rath

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