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I Had Cancer Guidelines

We're all here for similar reasons - we've been touched by cancer in some way. It’s up to all of us to show each other that no one is alone. Your IHadCancer profile is your own place to call home during this crazy thing called cancer, we just ask that you keep these simple guidelines in mind when participating.

1. Always Be Nice. This is a place for connections and conversations – we encourage you all to talk openly but please remain considerate in all of your engagement. Don’t post obscene, hateful or objectionable content. Abuse and disrespect will not be tolerated in the IHC community and is subject to deletion and user removal at our discretion.

2. Be a Good Friend. The IHC community is a family. Please remember to be a good friend to the connections you make on IHC. Ask questions that you wish someone would ask you; if you can’t find the right words to say, send a hug, it can speak louder than words. A simple gesture goes a long way.

3. Don't Spam. This includes sending unsolicited messages of any nature, posting links to unrelated content, promoting a survey, fundraiser or product where it shouldn’t be promoted. If you aren’t sure if something is appropriate to post, e-mail us and we’ll let you know.

4. Think Before You Post. Everything you post on IHadCancer is secure, but it is up to you to monitor how much or how little information you are sharing about yourself and your experience. Please don’t share personal or identifiable information like your mailing address or your full name and don’t share other member’s information.

5. If You See Something, Say Something. We work hard to make sure these guidelines are followed closely but if you see something that doesn’t’ feel right to you, please let us know. We review every report we receive and will take anything you say to heart. We promise.

6. Be Open. Welcome newcomers and help guide them through this journey based on your own experience. Whether you are a survivor, fighter, caregiver or supporter, you have valuable information that can very well help someone else who is just beginning the cancer journey. Be open to sharing experiences and give someone else the gift of your time.

Thanks for being a part of our community. It’s up to all of us to ensure that IHadCancer remains a place for us all to call home when dealing with the ups and downs of a cancer diagnosis.

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LeiaBuiltMyHotrod Connect

Survivor: Breast Cancer

Dear Cancer? HELL NO!!! There is nothing "dear" about you!!! How about: BITE ME, Cancer! You came barging into my life in 2006 at a particularly bad time (although there's NEVER a good time). We had only been in our newly purchased home LESS than a year. My husband was in his 3rd year of trade school for plumbing & gasfitting trying his hardest to focus and study. We had been trying for 3 months to concieve a child. Everything was going our way, and you f#cked it all up! Although you entered our lives with the intent to kill me, you FAILED!!! I am STILL HERE!!! You EPIC failed! I had an AMAZING army behind me giving me expert medical care and advice, and we eradicated you...sent you packing like the UNWELCOME guest you are! YOU LOSE! I am a Mom to an amazing 8 year old boy and GUESS WHAT!!??? I was able to nurse him when he was new, even after your feeble attempt at taking my breast and life! I am STRONGER in spite of you! Each day, I seem to meet people you tried to take, whether it be in person or online, and I'll have you know: our army (which consists of doctors, surgeons, nurses, radiologists, radiography techs, scientists, researchers, friends, family, lovers, strangers, and fellow survivors is growing, and you will continue to fail! Together, we are stronger than you, and we will DEFEAT you! Don't you look like a fool!!! There is only ONE thing I will thank you for... it is this: your appearance in my life gave ME the ability to see MY own strength and the ability to see others for who they really are. It helped me to figure out who was really worthy of remaining in my life. Don't let the door hit you on the way out! BUH-BYE! ~Melanie; Stage 2 Grade 3 triple negative DCIS ASS-KICKER!

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