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I Had Cancer Guidelines

We're all here for similar reasons - we've been touched by cancer in some way. It’s up to all of us to show each other that no one is alone. Your IHadCancer profile is your own place to call home during this crazy thing called cancer, we just ask that you keep these simple guidelines in mind when participating.

1. Always Be Nice. This is a place for connections and conversations – we encourage you all to talk openly but please remain considerate in all of your engagement. Don’t post obscene, hateful or objectionable content. Abuse and disrespect will not be tolerated in the IHC community and is subject to deletion and user removal at our discretion.

2. Be a Good Friend. The IHC community is a family. Please remember to be a good friend to the connections you make on IHC. Ask questions that you wish someone would ask you; if you can’t find the right words to say, send a hug, it can speak louder than words. A simple gesture goes a long way.

3. Don't Spam. This includes sending unsolicited messages of any nature, posting links to unrelated content, promoting a survey, fundraiser or product where it shouldn’t be promoted. If you aren’t sure if something is appropriate to post, e-mail us and we’ll let you know.

4. Think Before You Post. Everything you post on IHadCancer is secure, but it is up to you to monitor how much or how little information you are sharing about yourself and your experience. Please don’t share personal or identifiable information like your mailing address or your full name and don’t share other member’s information.

5. If You See Something, Say Something. We work hard to make sure these guidelines are followed closely but if you see something that doesn’t’ feel right to you, please let us know. We review every report we receive and will take anything you say to heart. We promise.

6. Be Open. Welcome newcomers and help guide them through this journey based on your own experience. Whether you are a survivor, fighter, caregiver or supporter, you have valuable information that can very well help someone else who is just beginning the cancer journey. Be open to sharing experiences and give someone else the gift of your time.

Thanks for being a part of our community. It’s up to all of us to ensure that IHadCancer remains a place for us all to call home when dealing with the ups and downs of a cancer diagnosis.

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Survivor: Head and Neck Cancer

Well you came into my life at the worst possible time I moved away from my hometown after two divorces and feeling that I was moving to a place were I was going to happy with a dream life do to that it was were my parents brought me as a child and had nothing but great memories and within less than a year moving away alone you attacked me I was alone and I longed for companionship and love and something real due to the Past hurting me and feeling like I had nothing but the closest people to me just stabbing me in the back so once I began to fight you it took my mind off the past you had me in stage 4 yeah it was the last thing I needed but I was reminded quickly the warrior that I am and I will let no one beat me especially some disease and even if you did kill me I was going to go out fighting strong with my head held high and I remember after 39 radiation treatments and several chemotherapy sessions hours in the chair you gave me something that I needed at that time which was simply people around me caring for me and what felt like loving me and hoping for my well-being so i of course smiled with appreciation that some one did care strangers in a hospital but at least i wasnt alone and someone seemed to care about me and now in remission still with many doctors appointments to make sure that you have gone away I have a whole new outlook on life I want to be more of a caring compassionate person to others I want to be a true friend to people in need you have changed my life changed my spirit changed my heart these things will last with me forever I will fight you cancer to the death for myself or any fellow cancer Fighters but I've become stronger more caring I can honestly say that I feel like I am a better and more loving person today the longs and hopes 4 those one conversations that can possibly lift a fellow cancer Fighters day like I needed so badly to talk about the experiences what it took to get through and how it went along the fight to get through with hopes that I can give one small piece of advice by living through it to help someone's day just a little bit these ideas and hopes are what my today happiness is looking for I feel the growth and possible advice could be something that someone needs today.

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