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I Had Cancer Guidelines

We're all here for similar reasons - we've been touched by cancer in some way. It’s up to all of us to show each other that no one is alone. Your IHadCancer profile is your own place to call home during this crazy thing called cancer, we just ask that you keep these simple guidelines in mind when participating.

1. Always Be Nice. This is a place for connections and conversations – we encourage you all to talk openly but please remain considerate in all of your engagement. Don’t post obscene, hateful or objectionable content. Abuse and disrespect will not be tolerated in the IHC community and is subject to deletion and user removal at our discretion.

2. Be a Good Friend. The IHC community is a family. Please remember to be a good friend to the connections you make on IHC. Ask questions that you wish someone would ask you; if you can’t find the right words to say, send a hug, it can speak louder than words. A simple gesture goes a long way.

3. Don't Spam. This includes sending unsolicited messages of any nature, posting links to unrelated content, promoting a survey, fundraiser or product where it shouldn’t be promoted. If you aren’t sure if something is appropriate to post, e-mail us and we’ll let you know.

4. Think Before You Post. Everything you post on IHadCancer is secure, but it is up to you to monitor how much or how little information you are sharing about yourself and your experience. Please don’t share personal or identifiable information like your mailing address or your full name and don’t share other member’s information.

5. If You See Something, Say Something. We work hard to make sure these guidelines are followed closely but if you see something that doesn’t’ feel right to you, please let us know. We review every report we receive and will take anything you say to heart. We promise.

6. Be Open. Welcome newcomers and help guide them through this journey based on your own experience. Whether you are a survivor, fighter, caregiver or supporter, you have valuable information that can very well help someone else who is just beginning the cancer journey. Be open to sharing experiences and give someone else the gift of your time.

Thanks for being a part of our community. It’s up to all of us to ensure that IHadCancer remains a place for us all to call home when dealing with the ups and downs of a cancer diagnosis.

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Survivor: Chronic Myelogenous Leukemia

Dear Cancer, I have mixed feelings about you. My initial reaction is to hate you. You have robbed me of so many things. I will never have 20:20 vision. At 30 I have to worry about Osteoporosis and the increased chance of Breast Cancer. Since you first visited, I wear 50+ sunscreen because I am now at a higher risk for skin cancer. And no matter what, I will always be looking over my shoulder praying that you don’t ever make a second appearance in my life. But as they say “what doesn’t kill you makes you stronger” and I am strong. You taught me at a very young age how precious life is. I really know what to worry about and it isn’t much. You showed me how truly amazing my mother is. She took a terrible situation and not only rose to the occasion, but through her determination and perseverance, would not allow this horrible disease to defeat me. She has been my biggest supporter ever since. Finally, beating you was my inspiration for a career in healthcare. So Cancer I do despise you, but I need to thank you for making me the person I am today. Worst Regards, Allison

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