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I Had Cancer Guidelines

We're all here for similar reasons - we've been touched by cancer in some way. It’s up to all of us to show each other that no one is alone. Your IHadCancer profile is your own place to call home during this crazy thing called cancer, we just ask that you keep these simple guidelines in mind when participating.

1. Always Be Nice. This is a place for connections and conversations – we encourage you all to talk openly but please remain considerate in all of your engagement. Don’t post obscene, hateful or objectionable content. Abuse and disrespect will not be tolerated in the IHC community and is subject to deletion and user removal at our discretion.

2. Be a Good Friend. The IHC community is a family. Please remember to be a good friend to the connections you make on IHC. Ask questions that you wish someone would ask you; if you can’t find the right words to say, send a hug, it can speak louder than words. A simple gesture goes a long way.

3. Don't Spam. This includes sending unsolicited messages of any nature, posting links to unrelated content, promoting a survey, fundraiser or product where it shouldn’t be promoted. If you aren’t sure if something is appropriate to post, e-mail us and we’ll let you know.

4. Think Before You Post. Everything you post on IHadCancer is secure, but it is up to you to monitor how much or how little information you are sharing about yourself and your experience. Please don’t share personal or identifiable information like your mailing address or your full name and don’t share other member’s information.

5. If You See Something, Say Something. We work hard to make sure these guidelines are followed closely but if you see something that doesn’t’ feel right to you, please let us know. We review every report we receive and will take anything you say to heart. We promise.

6. Be Open. Welcome newcomers and help guide them through this journey based on your own experience. Whether you are a survivor, fighter, caregiver or supporter, you have valuable information that can very well help someone else who is just beginning the cancer journey. Be open to sharing experiences and give someone else the gift of your time.

Thanks for being a part of our community. It’s up to all of us to ensure that IHadCancer remains a place for us all to call home when dealing with the ups and downs of a cancer diagnosis.

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Fighter: Ewing's Family of Tumors

Today I celebrate being exactly 5 years cancer free. and I’ve got a bone to pick with you... that isn't mine this time around. First of all, who do you think you are? Showing up in my chest when I was living a perfectly normal healthy life? You changed my life forever. I went through a year of hell- chemotherapy, radiation, surgeries, blood and platelet transfusions- all just to get you out. To prevent you from taking my life away. You made me weak, pale, bald, and miss out on life. When I see my scars, I am reminded of the long journey you put me through. While yes, there is a small chance you could come back, I am going to live my life to its VERY fullest so that there will be NO room for you to squeeze back into my life. Ever. You took my Grandfather. You took Aunt. Vel. You attacked my friends. You messed with the wrong girl, Cancer. Little did you know that I would put up such a fight. Lucky for me, living with you in my body made me see all of your weaknesses. You could not cripple the love of my family and friends. You could not shatter my hope. You could not kill my friendships, nor could you suppress my best memories. You could never silence my courage, or invade my soul. And you can never, ever conquer my spirit. You lose. I won. #5yearscancerFREE #BriPositive

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