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I Had Cancer Guidelines

We're all here for similar reasons - we've been touched by cancer in some way. It’s up to all of us to show each other that no one is alone. Your IHadCancer profile is your own place to call home during this crazy thing called cancer, we just ask that you keep these simple guidelines in mind when participating.

1. Always Be Nice. This is a place for connections and conversations – we encourage you all to talk openly but please remain considerate in all of your engagement. Don’t post obscene, hateful or objectionable content. Abuse and disrespect will not be tolerated in the IHC community and is subject to deletion and user removal at our discretion.

2. Be a Good Friend. The IHC community is a family. Please remember to be a good friend to the connections you make on IHC. Ask questions that you wish someone would ask you; if you can’t find the right words to say, send a hug, it can speak louder than words. A simple gesture goes a long way.

3. Don't Spam. This includes sending unsolicited messages of any nature, posting links to unrelated content, promoting a survey, fundraiser or product where it shouldn’t be promoted. If you aren’t sure if something is appropriate to post, e-mail us and we’ll let you know.

4. Think Before You Post. Everything you post on IHadCancer is secure, but it is up to you to monitor how much or how little information you are sharing about yourself and your experience. Please don’t share personal or identifiable information like your mailing address or your full name and don’t share other member’s information.

5. If You See Something, Say Something. We work hard to make sure these guidelines are followed closely but if you see something that doesn’t’ feel right to you, please let us know. We review every report we receive and will take anything you say to heart. We promise.

6. Be Open. Welcome newcomers and help guide them through this journey based on your own experience. Whether you are a survivor, fighter, caregiver or supporter, you have valuable information that can very well help someone else who is just beginning the cancer journey. Be open to sharing experiences and give someone else the gift of your time.

Thanks for being a part of our community. It’s up to all of us to ensure that IHadCancer remains a place for us all to call home when dealing with the ups and downs of a cancer diagnosis.

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Fighter: Other/Rare Cancer

I went into hosptail 27th March 2013 after a very heavy bleed which in its self nearly killed me but that didn't scare me. I knew then in the back of my mind that you were there that you were the reason I was in there. 3rd April 2013 Age 20 years old 7 Months and 13 days was the day I was offically told about you. The day I was offically told my life will be changed. I was sat there listening in this meeting , listening to what you were doing to me and the fact i'd never be able to carry my own child because of you. You bastard. Then I did the brave thing I told who I needed to tell, check my loved ones are ok. I had to tell my nannie, my lovely nannie that this was happening but however she was right she said your not going to beat me and she is so right. I don't think you realise who you are messing with here. I am strong and I am a lovely person I don't deserve you but I am going to kick your arse. You have shown me what is important in life you have shown me to take each day as a gift and the people around me to treat them with the love they deserve. So do you know what cancer yes you are going to take what is rightfully mine but there is no chance on this earth I am going to let you beat me.

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