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I Had Cancer Guidelines

We're all here for similar reasons - we've been touched by cancer in some way. It’s up to all of us to show each other that no one is alone. Your IHadCancer profile is your own place to call home during this crazy thing called cancer, we just ask that you keep these simple guidelines in mind when participating.

1. Always Be Nice. This is a place for connections and conversations – we encourage you all to talk openly but please remain considerate in all of your engagement. Don’t post obscene, hateful or objectionable content. Abuse and disrespect will not be tolerated in the IHC community and is subject to deletion and user removal at our discretion.

2. Be a Good Friend. The IHC community is a family. Please remember to be a good friend to the connections you make on IHC. Ask questions that you wish someone would ask you; if you can’t find the right words to say, send a hug, it can speak louder than words. A simple gesture goes a long way.

3. Don't Spam. This includes sending unsolicited messages of any nature, posting links to unrelated content, promoting a survey, fundraiser or product where it shouldn’t be promoted. If you aren’t sure if something is appropriate to post, e-mail us and we’ll let you know.

4. Think Before You Post. Everything you post on IHadCancer is secure, but it is up to you to monitor how much or how little information you are sharing about yourself and your experience. Please don’t share personal or identifiable information like your mailing address or your full name and don’t share other member’s information.

5. If You See Something, Say Something. We work hard to make sure these guidelines are followed closely but if you see something that doesn’t’ feel right to you, please let us know. We review every report we receive and will take anything you say to heart. We promise.

6. Be Open. Welcome newcomers and help guide them through this journey based on your own experience. Whether you are a survivor, fighter, caregiver or supporter, you have valuable information that can very well help someone else who is just beginning the cancer journey. Be open to sharing experiences and give someone else the gift of your time.

Thanks for being a part of our community. It’s up to all of us to ensure that IHadCancer remains a place for us all to call home when dealing with the ups and downs of a cancer diagnosis.

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Aamy Connect

Survivor: Non-Hodgkin's Lymphoma

Cancer, You suck. I will not let my kids use that word, but I am using it for you. You rob us of so much, but we all find a way to find joy in things anyway. I feel like I've lived the past year way too paranoid because I've been told there is a big chance you will come back. Scans every three months and trying not to get anxious with each one. Well guess what? I was told that once you found your way below my chest area you were much more aggressive, but you have been silent for almost a year and you better stay that way. All of my spots disappeared. The 21 cm mass in my chest is now only 8mm of scar tissue and all the various spots in other areas of my body(pancreas, kidney, and bones) are GONE. I give Praise to my Lord and Savior Jesus Christ!!! You cancer, are evil. Stay away and never come back!!! So glad I found this site. I never wrote a journal during any of this crap because I did not want any of my family members coming across it and reading it. No need for them to have that burden to bear. I cancer, am a WINNER!! You will never win. Don't forget that!!!!!

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