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I Had Cancer Guidelines

We're all here for similar reasons - we've been touched by cancer in some way. It’s up to all of us to show each other that no one is alone. Your IHadCancer profile is your own place to call home during this crazy thing called cancer, we just ask that you keep these simple guidelines in mind when participating.

1. Always Be Nice. This is a place for connections and conversations – we encourage you all to talk openly but please remain considerate in all of your engagement. Don’t post obscene, hateful or objectionable content. Abuse and disrespect will not be tolerated in the IHC community and is subject to deletion and user removal at our discretion.

2. Be a Good Friend. The IHC community is a family. Please remember to be a good friend to the connections you make on IHC. Ask questions that you wish someone would ask you; if you can’t find the right words to say, send a hug, it can speak louder than words. A simple gesture goes a long way.

3. Don't Spam. This includes sending unsolicited messages of any nature, posting links to unrelated content, promoting a survey, fundraiser or product where it shouldn’t be promoted. If you aren’t sure if something is appropriate to post, e-mail us and we’ll let you know.

4. Think Before You Post. Everything you post on IHadCancer is secure, but it is up to you to monitor how much or how little information you are sharing about yourself and your experience. Please don’t share personal or identifiable information like your mailing address or your full name and don’t share other member’s information.

5. If You See Something, Say Something. We work hard to make sure these guidelines are followed closely but if you see something that doesn’t’ feel right to you, please let us know. We review every report we receive and will take anything you say to heart. We promise.

6. Be Open. Welcome newcomers and help guide them through this journey based on your own experience. Whether you are a survivor, fighter, caregiver or supporter, you have valuable information that can very well help someone else who is just beginning the cancer journey. Be open to sharing experiences and give someone else the gift of your time.

Thanks for being a part of our community. It’s up to all of us to ensure that IHadCancer remains a place for us all to call home when dealing with the ups and downs of a cancer diagnosis.

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Survivor: Breast Cancer

Dear Cancer, I met your cousin BRCA2 mutated gene back in October of 2015 and I had to make serious decision about my fight with you and my overall health. I decided to have my left breast removed and a complete hysterectomy to lower my chances of you returning! Because of you (breast cancer) and your cousin (BRCA2 mutated gene) I lost my femininity and I almost lost my mind. I have no breasts or reproductive organs and I feel like I have to redefine my femininity. However, guess what cancer? I am going to do it! You nor your cousin will defeat me! Slowly but surely, I'm healing from the surgeries! Then, I am going to be the most beautiful woman in the world! I will be recreating and redefining myself inside and out. With the support of my family, close friends, counselor and God, I will survive!!! So your cousin BRCA2 mutated gene will be hanging around but I will not let it define me. This May 2016, I will be celebrating my 2nd year of remission from breast cancer! Good riddance to you and your cousin!!

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