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I Had Cancer Guidelines

We're all here for similar reasons - we've been touched by cancer in some way. It’s up to all of us to show each other that no one is alone. Your IHadCancer profile is your own place to call home during this crazy thing called cancer, we just ask that you keep these simple guidelines in mind when participating.

1. Always Be Nice. This is a place for connections and conversations – we encourage you all to talk openly but please remain considerate in all of your engagement. Don’t post obscene, hateful or objectionable content. Abuse and disrespect will not be tolerated in the IHC community and is subject to deletion and user removal at our discretion.

2. Be a Good Friend. The IHC community is a family. Please remember to be a good friend to the connections you make on IHC. Ask questions that you wish someone would ask you; if you can’t find the right words to say, send a hug, it can speak louder than words. A simple gesture goes a long way.

3. Don't Spam. This includes sending unsolicited messages of any nature, posting links to unrelated content, promoting a survey, fundraiser or product where it shouldn’t be promoted. If you aren’t sure if something is appropriate to post, e-mail us and we’ll let you know.

4. Think Before You Post. Everything you post on IHadCancer is secure, but it is up to you to monitor how much or how little information you are sharing about yourself and your experience. Please don’t share personal or identifiable information like your mailing address or your full name and don’t share other member’s information.

5. If You See Something, Say Something. We work hard to make sure these guidelines are followed closely but if you see something that doesn’t’ feel right to you, please let us know. We review every report we receive and will take anything you say to heart. We promise.

6. Be Open. Welcome newcomers and help guide them through this journey based on your own experience. Whether you are a survivor, fighter, caregiver or supporter, you have valuable information that can very well help someone else who is just beginning the cancer journey. Be open to sharing experiences and give someone else the gift of your time.

Thanks for being a part of our community. It’s up to all of us to ensure that IHadCancer remains a place for us all to call home when dealing with the ups and downs of a cancer diagnosis.

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MLSKCA Connect

Survivor: Breast Cancer

Dear cancer I hate you in every way. You unwelcominginly came into my life, a life I very much so liked by the way and you changed everhthing. You forced me to go through treatment that I hated. Changed my looks which I liked and made me question everything about who I am. I kicked your ass but yet you left things in shambles. I wish you had never come into my life. I was happy, I felt pretty and I knew who I was. How dare you have messed with all of that. I was 31 and FINALLY found my place in this world. Now thanks to you I'm back to being so confused. do you know some weeks I can't even look in the mirror because of what you did to me. I don't recognize my own body. Or my hair, and sometimes even my face with my thinning eyebrows and my short eyelashes. Then you force me to take this medication that has aged me. Cancer I beat you! I won! But why is it that sometimes it feels like you did. I hope that one day I'll be able to look in the mirror and really feel able to love the reflection again. However I'm telling you now that I HATE you. Don't ever come messing with me and my life again. You are not welcomed.

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