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I Had Cancer Guidelines

We're all here for similar reasons - we've been touched by cancer in some way. It’s up to all of us to show each other that no one is alone. Your IHadCancer profile is your own place to call home during this crazy thing called cancer, we just ask that you keep these simple guidelines in mind when participating.

1. Always Be Nice. This is a place for connections and conversations – we encourage you all to talk openly but please remain considerate in all of your engagement. Don’t post obscene, hateful or objectionable content. Abuse and disrespect will not be tolerated in the IHC community and is subject to deletion and user removal at our discretion.

2. Be a Good Friend. The IHC community is a family. Please remember to be a good friend to the connections you make on IHC. Ask questions that you wish someone would ask you; if you can’t find the right words to say, send a hug, it can speak louder than words. A simple gesture goes a long way.

3. Don't Spam. This includes sending unsolicited messages of any nature, posting links to unrelated content, promoting a survey, fundraiser or product where it shouldn’t be promoted. If you aren’t sure if something is appropriate to post, e-mail us and we’ll let you know.

4. Think Before You Post. Everything you post on IHadCancer is secure, but it is up to you to monitor how much or how little information you are sharing about yourself and your experience. Please don’t share personal or identifiable information like your mailing address or your full name and don’t share other member’s information.

5. If You See Something, Say Something. We work hard to make sure these guidelines are followed closely but if you see something that doesn’t’ feel right to you, please let us know. We review every report we receive and will take anything you say to heart. We promise.

6. Be Open. Welcome newcomers and help guide them through this journey based on your own experience. Whether you are a survivor, fighter, caregiver or supporter, you have valuable information that can very well help someone else who is just beginning the cancer journey. Be open to sharing experiences and give someone else the gift of your time.

Thanks for being a part of our community. It’s up to all of us to ensure that IHadCancer remains a place for us all to call home when dealing with the ups and downs of a cancer diagnosis.

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Fighter: Ovarian Cancer

Dear cancer you make me sick literally thou today is not a good day mentally and I feel stressed out I tried to return back to work Monday after being out for the last five months fighting with surgery and cancer, scans, chemo my job worked me so hard coming back my first day i am suppose to be on light duty i still have a blood colt in my left leg but much smaller than before i still have a open wound in my stomach but yet I saw 50 patient's on the floor in clinic from 7:30-4pm until I finally said that's it I'm in pain i felt so used like they wanted to test me to see if i could keep up with bringing patients back for the doctor. I was set for CT-Scan yesterday but they called to reschedule machine was down i was so swollen from Monday an in pain plus the rainy days don't help and feeling nausea i couldn't bring myself to go into work today smh feeling stressed out in pain can't take medicine pain killer's and treat patients casting, taking sutures out I'm not suppose to be bending or pulling or on my feet all day but I guess my job don't think it will kill me. This is not light duty damn you cancer major surgery and still recovering physically but mentally I'm lost just like I lost everything else I'm so pissed at work no hair body in pain mind all over the place God drove me home cause I couldn't even focus on the 2hr dive in traffic at that point I was numb i cried so bad i don't know if I can do it i feel weak all over again god please forgive me i don't want to feel ungrateful after you spared my life with this terrible cancer issue please give me strength show me the way for i can't see it on my own

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