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I Had Cancer Guidelines

We're all here for similar reasons - we've been touched by cancer in some way. It’s up to all of us to show each other that no one is alone. Your IHadCancer profile is your own place to call home during this crazy thing called cancer, we just ask that you keep these simple guidelines in mind when participating.

1. Always Be Nice. This is a place for connections and conversations – we encourage you all to talk openly but please remain considerate in all of your engagement. Don’t post obscene, hateful or objectionable content. Abuse and disrespect will not be tolerated in the IHC community and is subject to deletion and user removal at our discretion.

2. Be a Good Friend. The IHC community is a family. Please remember to be a good friend to the connections you make on IHC. Ask questions that you wish someone would ask you; if you can’t find the right words to say, send a hug, it can speak louder than words. A simple gesture goes a long way.

3. Don't Spam. This includes sending unsolicited messages of any nature, posting links to unrelated content, promoting a survey, fundraiser or product where it shouldn’t be promoted. If you aren’t sure if something is appropriate to post, e-mail us and we’ll let you know.

4. Think Before You Post. Everything you post on IHadCancer is secure, but it is up to you to monitor how much or how little information you are sharing about yourself and your experience. Please don’t share personal or identifiable information like your mailing address or your full name and don’t share other member’s information.

5. If You See Something, Say Something. We work hard to make sure these guidelines are followed closely but if you see something that doesn’t’ feel right to you, please let us know. We review every report we receive and will take anything you say to heart. We promise.

6. Be Open. Welcome newcomers and help guide them through this journey based on your own experience. Whether you are a survivor, fighter, caregiver or supporter, you have valuable information that can very well help someone else who is just beginning the cancer journey. Be open to sharing experiences and give someone else the gift of your time.

Thanks for being a part of our community. It’s up to all of us to ensure that IHadCancer remains a place for us all to call home when dealing with the ups and downs of a cancer diagnosis.

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Survivor: Ovarian Cancer

Dear Cancer. i did not ask for you. I in no way, shape, or form, asked to be diagnosed with Ovarian Cancer at the age of 16. I did nothing to cause you . Never smoke, never drank, ate healthy, took care of my body, exercised regularly... so why? WHY did you come bulldozing into my life to turn it upside down? Not only did you tear my life apart, but you also tore my family's. I will never forget listening to my parents screaming and crying on the phone with 9-1-1 after I woke up one morning and had a seizure. I'll never forget the looks I saw in their eyes every day at chemo as they helplessly watched me be filled with bag after bag of fluid. Or the tears my mom cried on the way home from getting my hair cut from my butt to my shoulders because it would be coming out shortly.. how she held the ponytail tight in her hands the whole ride home. Cancer, I will never forget the bullshit you put me through. And I've beat you once and been through enough... I dare you to come back again. You're not welcome here.

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