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I Had Cancer Guidelines

We're all here for similar reasons - we've been touched by cancer in some way. It’s up to all of us to show each other that no one is alone. Your IHadCancer profile is your own place to call home during this crazy thing called cancer, we just ask that you keep these simple guidelines in mind when participating.

1. Always Be Nice. This is a place for connections and conversations – we encourage you all to talk openly but please remain considerate in all of your engagement. Don’t post obscene, hateful or objectionable content. Abuse and disrespect will not be tolerated in the IHC community and is subject to deletion and user removal at our discretion.

2. Be a Good Friend. The IHC community is a family. Please remember to be a good friend to the connections you make on IHC. Ask questions that you wish someone would ask you; if you can’t find the right words to say, send a hug, it can speak louder than words. A simple gesture goes a long way.

3. Don't Spam. This includes sending unsolicited messages of any nature, posting links to unrelated content, promoting a survey, fundraiser or product where it shouldn’t be promoted. If you aren’t sure if something is appropriate to post, e-mail us and we’ll let you know.

4. Think Before You Post. Everything you post on IHadCancer is secure, but it is up to you to monitor how much or how little information you are sharing about yourself and your experience. Please don’t share personal or identifiable information like your mailing address or your full name and don’t share other member’s information.

5. If You See Something, Say Something. We work hard to make sure these guidelines are followed closely but if you see something that doesn’t’ feel right to you, please let us know. We review every report we receive and will take anything you say to heart. We promise.

6. Be Open. Welcome newcomers and help guide them through this journey based on your own experience. Whether you are a survivor, fighter, caregiver or supporter, you have valuable information that can very well help someone else who is just beginning the cancer journey. Be open to sharing experiences and give someone else the gift of your time.

Thanks for being a part of our community. It’s up to all of us to ensure that IHadCancer remains a place for us all to call home when dealing with the ups and downs of a cancer diagnosis.

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Joseph Connect

Survivor: Nasopharyngeal Cancer

Dear Cancer, I fought many battles with you,long and hard.I fought you with the strengt and passion of a knight fighting a dragon breathing fire down upon me.You caused me intense pain ,sorrow, and some days i felt like i was going to die.And other days i felt like giving up. But i forged ahead in the battle to save my dignity ,my faith and my life.As my shield was made of love and my sword made of faith two weapons you could not understand or defeat. We battled for six months, then one day i awakened and stood tall over my vanquished enemy. That day i thought the war was over,it was not only the battle.For you still appear in the distant horizon daily i can cathch a glimpse of you trying to penatrate the shield and barrier of unbeatable will i have created with my fellow soldiers of family.A army of those that would give their live for me toghether we had a shiled you can never break or get thru with your breath of fire and death.I know from time to time i may have to again suite up to do battle again with you. But like a angel that is always awake with the eyes of love and compassion ,my army is ready to do battle again if need be.Remember that before you think of launching another attack. One last warning i will also come to the aid of my fellow cancer soldiers currently doing battle with you.So beware!!!!!

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