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I Had Cancer Guidelines

We're all here for similar reasons - we've been touched by cancer in some way. It’s up to all of us to show each other that no one is alone. Your IHadCancer profile is your own place to call home during this crazy thing called cancer, we just ask that you keep these simple guidelines in mind when participating.

1. Always Be Nice. This is a place for connections and conversations – we encourage you all to talk openly but please remain considerate in all of your engagement. Don’t post obscene, hateful or objectionable content. Abuse and disrespect will not be tolerated in the IHC community and is subject to deletion and user removal at our discretion.

2. Be a Good Friend. The IHC community is a family. Please remember to be a good friend to the connections you make on IHC. Ask questions that you wish someone would ask you; if you can’t find the right words to say, send a hug, it can speak louder than words. A simple gesture goes a long way.

3. Don't Spam. This includes sending unsolicited messages of any nature, posting links to unrelated content, promoting a survey, fundraiser or product where it shouldn’t be promoted. If you aren’t sure if something is appropriate to post, e-mail us and we’ll let you know.

4. Think Before You Post. Everything you post on IHadCancer is secure, but it is up to you to monitor how much or how little information you are sharing about yourself and your experience. Please don’t share personal or identifiable information like your mailing address or your full name and don’t share other member’s information.

5. If You See Something, Say Something. We work hard to make sure these guidelines are followed closely but if you see something that doesn’t’ feel right to you, please let us know. We review every report we receive and will take anything you say to heart. We promise.

6. Be Open. Welcome newcomers and help guide them through this journey based on your own experience. Whether you are a survivor, fighter, caregiver or supporter, you have valuable information that can very well help someone else who is just beginning the cancer journey. Be open to sharing experiences and give someone else the gift of your time.

Thanks for being a part of our community. It’s up to all of us to ensure that IHadCancer remains a place for us all to call home when dealing with the ups and downs of a cancer diagnosis.

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Survivor: Breast Cancer

August 3rd, 2011 I was taking a shower, getting ready to get to my Moms shoulder surgery when I felt the lump in my left breast. I thought to myself lets get Mom through her surgery and then I will deal with what I think is going on.I knew what I was facing but ignored it for months because I did not want to hear those words .... "YOU HAVE CANCER"! January 4, 2012 I was diagnosed with stage 2 breast cancer and I was told I had a bad "marker". Marker meaning I had her2nu which basically encouraged cancer in my body for breast cancer.It has been over 2 years since my last chemo treatment and nearly 2 years since my last herceptin treatment for the "her2nu" marker and I finally am feeling like me again! Thank you Lord for all you have done for me and those I met during my treatments!It was a hard road but I prevailed! I knew you would not get me but I had no idea how hard the battle of recovery would be but I made it and so will those that trust and believe in the power of prayer! God bless you all who are affected by this horrible disease. What most do not understand is the recovery is as hard, if not harder, than the actually treatments which are, as those who have been through them, a battle in its own.

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