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I Had Cancer Guidelines

We're all here for similar reasons - we've been touched by cancer in some way. It’s up to all of us to show each other that no one is alone. Your IHadCancer profile is your own place to call home during this crazy thing called cancer, we just ask that you keep these simple guidelines in mind when participating.

1. Always Be Nice. This is a place for connections and conversations – we encourage you all to talk openly but please remain considerate in all of your engagement. Don’t post obscene, hateful or objectionable content. Abuse and disrespect will not be tolerated in the IHC community and is subject to deletion and user removal at our discretion.

2. Be a Good Friend. The IHC community is a family. Please remember to be a good friend to the connections you make on IHC. Ask questions that you wish someone would ask you; if you can’t find the right words to say, send a hug, it can speak louder than words. A simple gesture goes a long way.

3. Don't Spam. This includes sending unsolicited messages of any nature, posting links to unrelated content, promoting a survey, fundraiser or product where it shouldn’t be promoted. If you aren’t sure if something is appropriate to post, e-mail us and we’ll let you know.

4. Think Before You Post. Everything you post on IHadCancer is secure, but it is up to you to monitor how much or how little information you are sharing about yourself and your experience. Please don’t share personal or identifiable information like your mailing address or your full name and don’t share other member’s information.

5. If You See Something, Say Something. We work hard to make sure these guidelines are followed closely but if you see something that doesn’t’ feel right to you, please let us know. We review every report we receive and will take anything you say to heart. We promise.

6. Be Open. Welcome newcomers and help guide them through this journey based on your own experience. Whether you are a survivor, fighter, caregiver or supporter, you have valuable information that can very well help someone else who is just beginning the cancer journey. Be open to sharing experiences and give someone else the gift of your time.

Thanks for being a part of our community. It’s up to all of us to ensure that IHadCancer remains a place for us all to call home when dealing with the ups and downs of a cancer diagnosis.

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Survivor: Acute Myeloid Leukemia

Dear Cancer, two weeks from today I will be officially eleven years cancer free! I know that it's a huge accomplishment and that I should be happy but I can't help to think of all the bad things this year as my friends and family I have so much going on for them. I have had a couple of friends get married this year and couldn't be happier for them but it makes me cry as well because I get told all the time that no one is good enough for me and at the same time no one wants to date the girl who had cancer. No one wants to date the girl who can't run because the chemo wrecked my bones. The only time I get recognize is if I need help walking up stairs or help carrying things. No one wants to be with the person I became after having cancer. It hurts so much that people compare cancer to what they see in movies. I love the movie the fault in our stars but that we would never really happen. People don't fall in love while having cancer or my favorite is when people say lance Armstrong had cancer twice and is back out there riding his bike when I can't even run. I know everyone's case is completely different I just wished that I was recognized for what I did and that somebody would give me a chance!

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