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I Had Cancer Guidelines

We're all here for similar reasons - we've been touched by cancer in some way. It’s up to all of us to show each other that no one is alone. Your IHadCancer profile is your own place to call home during this crazy thing called cancer, we just ask that you keep these simple guidelines in mind when participating.

1. Always Be Nice. This is a place for connections and conversations – we encourage you all to talk openly but please remain considerate in all of your engagement. Don’t post obscene, hateful or objectionable content. Abuse and disrespect will not be tolerated in the IHC community and is subject to deletion and user removal at our discretion.

2. Be a Good Friend. The IHC community is a family. Please remember to be a good friend to the connections you make on IHC. Ask questions that you wish someone would ask you; if you can’t find the right words to say, send a hug, it can speak louder than words. A simple gesture goes a long way.

3. Don't Spam. This includes sending unsolicited messages of any nature, posting links to unrelated content, promoting a survey, fundraiser or product where it shouldn’t be promoted. If you aren’t sure if something is appropriate to post, e-mail us and we’ll let you know.

4. Think Before You Post. Everything you post on IHadCancer is secure, but it is up to you to monitor how much or how little information you are sharing about yourself and your experience. Please don’t share personal or identifiable information like your mailing address or your full name and don’t share other member’s information.

5. If You See Something, Say Something. We work hard to make sure these guidelines are followed closely but if you see something that doesn’t’ feel right to you, please let us know. We review every report we receive and will take anything you say to heart. We promise.

6. Be Open. Welcome newcomers and help guide them through this journey based on your own experience. Whether you are a survivor, fighter, caregiver or supporter, you have valuable information that can very well help someone else who is just beginning the cancer journey. Be open to sharing experiences and give someone else the gift of your time.

Thanks for being a part of our community. It’s up to all of us to ensure that IHadCancer remains a place for us all to call home when dealing with the ups and downs of a cancer diagnosis.

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Fighter: Ovarian Cancer

Dear cancer I am fucking pissed off today. I get the email from my job that now wants to tell me after being out three months of fighting for my life and still stressed out everyday from Ovarian cancer and chemo treatments they hired someone for my position and thou I was going to return April 11 they now tell me I need to wait until May when the Doctors office will have two Doctors working at a time all I can say is WOW. 4 yrs i have worked as an Orthopedic tech running the office by myself now you replace me just like my so called friends who never call anymore the loneliness i feel everyday the little hope I was holding on too it has all become to much to bear the transfermation of hair loss an wt: loss not just being sick but looking like your sick stuck in the house with no where to go no funds behind in bills fuck you name its going on and even though I still have my job for now I feel like i dont even want to return I feel so out of place in this world right now I feel like giving up laying down and calling it quits Lord someone please help me what do I where do Igo from here?

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