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I Had Cancer Guidelines

We're all here for similar reasons - we've been touched by cancer in some way. It’s up to all of us to show each other that no one is alone. Your IHadCancer profile is your own place to call home during this crazy thing called cancer, we just ask that you keep these simple guidelines in mind when participating.

1. Always Be Nice. This is a place for connections and conversations – we encourage you all to talk openly but please remain considerate in all of your engagement. Don’t post obscene, hateful or objectionable content. Abuse and disrespect will not be tolerated in the IHC community and is subject to deletion and user removal at our discretion.

2. Be a Good Friend. The IHC community is a family. Please remember to be a good friend to the connections you make on IHC. Ask questions that you wish someone would ask you; if you can’t find the right words to say, send a hug, it can speak louder than words. A simple gesture goes a long way.

3. Don't Spam. This includes sending unsolicited messages of any nature, posting links to unrelated content, promoting a survey, fundraiser or product where it shouldn’t be promoted. If you aren’t sure if something is appropriate to post, e-mail us and we’ll let you know.

4. Think Before You Post. Everything you post on IHadCancer is secure, but it is up to you to monitor how much or how little information you are sharing about yourself and your experience. Please don’t share personal or identifiable information like your mailing address or your full name and don’t share other member’s information.

5. If You See Something, Say Something. We work hard to make sure these guidelines are followed closely but if you see something that doesn’t’ feel right to you, please let us know. We review every report we receive and will take anything you say to heart. We promise.

6. Be Open. Welcome newcomers and help guide them through this journey based on your own experience. Whether you are a survivor, fighter, caregiver or supporter, you have valuable information that can very well help someone else who is just beginning the cancer journey. Be open to sharing experiences and give someone else the gift of your time.

Thanks for being a part of our community. It’s up to all of us to ensure that IHadCancer remains a place for us all to call home when dealing with the ups and downs of a cancer diagnosis.

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Survivor: Colon and Rectal Cancer

Dear Cancer, You thought you would beat me. You thought I was weak and wouldn't fight, even after you tried to kill me through radiation because I refused chemo. I was and still am stronger than you! I beat you! I beat the odds! when I was diagnosed, I had just turned 41. Was given a death sentence of 18 months max, even after surgery and treatment. I am fixing to have my 2 year anniversary of being diagnosed and my 1 year anniversary of being told I was totally cancer free! I have baffled my doctors and the specialists at Johns Hopkins. No one can explain how I conquered you. I think it was because I wasn't going to let you win. I wasn't going to just lay there and let you control me, define who I was. Yeah, I have to do some things differently now, but I am alive, I am healthy and feel better than I have in years! You hear that cancer?????? Yeah, I'm talking to you! You didn't win, I'm still here, I'm still standing strong. You didn't break me! I have a strong support system that still go with me to the doctors, still celebrate with me when I get regular lab results back. Anyway, I just wanted to tell you you picked the wrong woman to tango with this time! The two weeks of chemo did the most damage to my body. sincerely, A victor of your game!

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